megan, blake, carter & addie

Monday, October 10, 2011

National Night Out!

This blog post amazes me every year. This is an event we have anxiously looked forward to every year in our neighborhood and it gives me a chance to reflect on the kids growth from year to year....
2010, 2009, I think we were in Paris in 2008, I don't think I took pictures way back in 2007! ;)

We had a record turn out this year since the amazing social committee provided dinner! After eating, all the kids wanted to do, was to go out front and wait for the fire truck!

We waited and waited... and waited some more. The kids were so anxious for it's arrival but sunset was coming so the nice SAPD sargent allowed the kids to tour his car.

I love that he told the kids you are only allowed to be in the front seat and that you NEVER want to be in the BACK SEAT of a police car!!

We waited some more for the fire truck. They must have asked over a 100 times when it was going to be there.

Our amazing neighbors Corky and Evelyn.

One of our favorite people in Oakwood, Rudy, our SAPD that has watched our neighborhood for FOUR years and in that time, watched our children grow up!

It was completely dark outside, we stayed thirty minutes past the ending time, holding out for the fire truck. We had just walked inside and I was getting the kids a drink and out of the corner of my eye, noticed brightly flashing colors out our font door. Parked in front of our house was THE FIRETRUCK, for a private tour for Carter, Addie and Barrett. I do feel bad for the dozens and dozens of kids that had to go home....

Every four and a half old's dream... driving a real fire truck!

We LOVED exploring the inside of the truck.... so much to look at.

Then it was Addie's turn behind the wheel...

She loved it when they offered to close the door and let her pretend to really drive...

It was definitely worth the wait!

Sunday, October 9, 2011

Trey Casey... At 2.5 Years Old!

My bestest friend from college lives in Houston and although we talk at least two hours nearly every week (many of it through unordinarily long voicemails back and forth during hectic weeks,) we haven't gotten to physically see one another in an embarrasingly long amount of time. Since I had never laid live eyes on her adorable, new (4 month old daughter), a trip to H-town was greatly over due. Add in the fact that my very best friend from high school moved there several months ago and my sister about month ago, Blake and I decided I should make a weekend of it to be with three of the most important ladies in my life.

Alli surprised me with the yummiest sushi dinner Friday night. We talked and talked and talked and talked.... There were times when we had 3 or 4 DIFFERENT stories going at the same time because we kept getting so off track! It was so much fun! This was our super memorable non-sushi dish we devoured - Lobster Mac and Cheese!!! We almost ordered a second serving!

Then I woke up at the crack of dawn for Jen to pick me up to get through crazy Houston 6AM Saturday morning traffic and run in the largest race I have ever seen - the Susan G. Komen Race For The Cure.

Afterwards, my sister and her fiance, Matt, met up with us and we spent the afternoon with our post-race crowd at Rice Village.

Jen and I ended the weekend by waking up (early for her and super late for me) at 8 AM and went on another jog, before heading back to the family. It wasn't even my idea... I think this running thing is rubbing off on those around me. ;)

Before all this fun, I got to snap some pics of sweet Trey while his new sister napped and he got to enjoy his popsicle. At 2.5 years old, I loved his sweet feet, funny faces and focus on that ever important popsicle! Thank you for Alli for a wonderful visit!

My visit was way too short because I only got to snap one little shot of sweet Miss Caroline.

Saturday, October 8, 2011

Marathon Monday (Wk #11/16) Over 250 miles!

Schedule Running: 5 miles, 8 miles, 5 miles, 16 miles = 34 miles
Actual Running: 4.3 miles (treadmill), 8.4 miles, 16 miles (2 hours & 52 minutes) = 28.7 miles

For the first time in eleven weeks, those two numbers don't look good however, I am okay with it since I did those nearly twenty-nine miles in just a four day time period. My schedule got a little messed up with traveling to Houston last weekend and I didn't get to do my long run from last week until Monday morning. With the weather report of this weekend, I opted to get my long run out of the way this morning.

This is my third week at 16 miles for my long run and I am super sad to say that it didn't get any easier. In fact, I added 25 seconds to my pace this morning. Although it did rain for half of the nearly 3 hours, my legs are just getting sore (really sore) at mile 13. The great news was that I got an amazing burst of energy and focus for the last 2 miles and got to end on a high!

I took my first REAL GU gel pack today, around mile 9 and I was super surprised when I LOVED it. The other great news was that it is the first energy replacement that I have used over the last 8 weeks that has not reaked havoc on my stomach soon after! I love seeing signs along my runs that make me smile, like this one along Wurzbach this morning.

In other first time marathon news, Blake and I, headed out to the Roger Soler running store this morning after my run and I met the neatest lady that shared all kinds of helpful tips for race day! It's funny how excited I get talking to other Marathoners, these days.

I do have to report of some bad news this week. I don't know if you are familiar with last week's story of Reese Witherspoon being hit by a car. But it nearly happened to BOTH Blake and I during separate early morning runs. Both instances we were running on the sidewalk against traffic (as we should be) and women in a hurry are coming out of apartment or neighborhood exits, turning to their right and ONLY LOOK LEFT, totally ignoring pedestrians five feet in front of them. I got to pull the classic movie scene and bang on their hood, since they were so close and give them a little piece of my mind. Blake got to do the same, however, he tensed up so much to get out of the way so quickly, he has injured his achilles. So he is working through some achilles tendinitis and we practiced using the Kinesio Tex Tape. After three days rest and a two mile slow jog, Blake is going to head to the Elliptical for a few days and just got done SCREAMING as he placed his entire foot in a large bucket filled with ice water. So please keep his left foot in your thoughts and prayers. I think I'm going to go find that lady and let her know what her failure to look both ways at 6:30 AM may result in, if he's unable to run in 35 days! :(

Monday, October 3, 2011

Marathon Monday - (Wk #10/16)

Scheduled Running: 5 miles, 8 miles, 5 miles, 16 miles = 34 miles
Actual Running: 5 miles, 8.3 miles, 3.2 miles, 3.1 miles, 16 miles(2 hrs & 47 min) Absolutely exhausted afterwards but didn't feel too sore the following day = 35.6 miles

I ran the Houston Susan B. Komen Race For The Cure on Saturday with Jennifer.

Distance 5K
Chip Time 27:58
Overall Place 923 / 2875 - Top 32%
Gender Place 321 / 1697 - Top 19%
Division Place 44 / 279 - Top 15%
Age Grade 53%
Total Pace 8:58/M

This week's long run of 16 miles, stayed the same as last week and instead just added 2 miles on the shorter runs. I used my new Asics this week and good news - the IT band issues along the hip have all but disappeared however the severe calf soreness has returned with advengence. Ugh... I don't know if it is adjusting to the new shoes or what so I ran my long run in my old shoes this morning.

The GREAT news was the weather during my 5AM run this morning! Fall... I have never been as excited to see you as this year!

46 days and counting until November 13!

Saturday, October 1, 2011

1st Magic Show

All day long, we talked about what a magic show was and I'm pretty sure they are ready. I sure hope there are long brightly colored scarfs coming out of jackets, quarters appearing from behind ears and live bunny rabbits mysteriously jumping out of hats or else, I'm going to be in trouble! Unfortunately, I had a work dinner tonight so Blake took Carter, Addie and their cousin Marshall to the Magic Show and Dinner.

Friday, September 30, 2011

Just Like Daddy

Carter - 3 months shy of five years old! Blake - 33 years old

Delaney's Milestones

2 Month Well Check Up: 11 lbs & 11 oz (58%) height : 23 inches (73%) head:15.4 (71%) McCray said she was perfect. Continuing waking up every 5-6 hours at night completely due to my comfort. Dr encouraged me not to wake up and pump instead. Still I having perfect nights sleeping hard since birth.
WEIGHT GAIN: at 5.5 weeks weighed 10 pounds at lactation center. At 7 weeks, weighed 11 Lbs 8 oz. Tremendous growth in last 2 weeks. Moved out of Newborn diapers at 6.5 weeks, should have moved up 2 weeks prior!
Hates PACIFIER - since 5 weeks
SLEEPING: 7 hours at 3 days old. She has always had nights down going 4-5 hour stretch since 2 weeks old, 5 hour stretches regularly at 3-4 was old and 6 hour stretches by 5-6 weeks. At 7 weeks old, have to wake her up after 6 hours because of nursing. During day going 2-2.5 hrs getting 9-10 feelings in a day
SMILES: started at 3 weeks during Easter weekend when YaYa talked to her. Much more regular at 5 weeks and on demand starting at 6 weeks for sure,
One Month Check Up Stats: 9.1 pounds (42%) height: 21.5" (64%) head circum: 14.6" (61%): Dr. McCray said she looks perfect and not concerned at all about lower % since birth since sleeping upwards of 4-5 hours in between feedings.
Schedule at 1 month: eating 7 to 8 times a day. Every 3 hours at most during day, going 2 stretches of 4-5 hours at night. Has never fused going to bed after 10 pm feeding thru 7 AM feeding, doesn't ever take pacifier at night thus far. Most fidgety time of day 7:30 to 9:30 likes to me held or sleeps those 2 hours in bed with us but then 100% fine at next feeding. Goes to sleep instantly after 3 nighttime feelings and stays awake for 45 to 90 min after each daytime feeding before napping until next feeding.
First smile to YaYa and Aunt Julie Easter Weekend at 3 weeks old, lots more smiles right at 1 month old
Weighed 7 pounds 9 oz at 3 day check up at doctor's appt, back up to 7 lbs & 12 pz just 3 days later at 1 week check
Born March 8, 2013 at 12:28 PM weighing 8 pounds and 20.5 inches

Addie's Milestones in 2012 (3.5-4.5 years old)

March 8'm2013 - became a big sister to Delaney. She was actually excited at hospital mad in first week seemed not too interested in Delaney. We didn't push it and then she started bringing drawings for the baby home from school and in second week started wanting to hold and touch her more. At 11 days old, she was excited to show her off to all her friends at school. At first I was concerned but then Blake pointed out she has been on her best behavior, hasn't been acting out at all and is still 100% the same... She is still our awesome little Addie!
March 2013 @ 4 years and 10 months, decided she wanted to get her ears pierced (see blog post)
February 2013: first kiss (see blog post)
January 2013: loves that she learned how to both snap and whistle this month. She is so proud of both new talents
January 2013- She is fully obsessed with her hair, headbands and wanting to wash her hair every night. she will sit in her room and brush it, ask me to braid it all the time. she has slept in a headband for the past 2-3 weeks. her favorite headband is one from Macy from Gymboree with Ladybugs across the top.
Medical Update- Jan 1, 2013 while in Breckenridge. While there, developed common cold that due to her asthma turned into full blown asthma attack, we treated with 3 doses of steroid and albuteral every 3-4 hours. 10 days later, cough gone but she complained of ear hurting whike at school, took her in immediately to find slight ear infection in left ear, treated with 10 days of 2x/antibiotic. she was fine following day and it best mood ever for following week!
December 2012: 4.5 years old. GREAT great age for Miss Addie B. she just started randomly talking constantly about a boy from her school in her neighboring class- Brady. His twin brother, Owen, is in her class and they all play alot.
November 2012: Right at 4.5- her favorite things are stuffed dogs and SPARKLES. Everyday she comes home with rhinestones or sequins that they find at school. the other 3 girls in her class; Bella, Sophia and Amara even bring them from home to exchange. Her Christmas list this year includes: 1) Sparkles 2) Pink Wallet 3) Stompeez house shoes 4) Pink unicorn 5) Barbie "Rocktar" Guitar. Her other favorite gifts: frilly pink Princess nighgown and 2 Hallmark Storytime talking dogs- Nugget and Jingle
May 2012: 4 Year Old Checkup Weight 36 lbs (59%) & height 39.5" (46%)
Jan 2012 - Turned completely OFF the kid's room audio and visual monitors in our bedroom. Addie was 3 yrs & 8 months and Carter - right at 5. We haven't turned it on once since then although it still sits atop our dresser. Kid's know not to get out of room except for one bathroom trip and must stay in until clock says 7. On rare occasions one may come in if not feeling well to let us know. (Jan 2012)

Carter's Milestone's Since Turning 5 (2012)

December update: Carter thriving in DL Spanish immersion class. He comes everyday telling us a new Spanish word. His little accent when he talks is amazing. All semester Carter has excelled in math and his teacher has recommended testing for GT after holidays. Almost 6 years old
November: Carter started very first season of flag football. he is defintely a natural and lives getting the flags. He has practice 2X a week in addition to a game on Sundays.- Almost 6
October: Carter in the middle of his first semester of Kids Choir at church. he looks forward to attending but isn't as into singing the songs outside of class as Addie is. I think it is helping him come out of his shell a little more as the lime light, except on thesports field, has never been Carter's thing- 5.5 yrs old
August 27, 2012: Carter at 5.5 years old started the Spanish Dual Language class at Vineyard Ranch with Mrs. Mori. In his room, three of his friends from Concordia, Cash McPeak, Addison Pol and Brooke Volz. Absolutely loved his first week!
At 5.5 Years old, started playing first ever baseball season at JCC with six and seven year olds. It was so cool watching him learn the game for the first time ever, never really playing even tball before, besides in the backyard. (Summer 2012)
At 5 years & 1 month: Playing in third year of Winter basketball, playing in SPURS league with the Kindergarden and First Grade League. He is doing great, high scorer and top rebounder even if they are all 5-8 inches taller. He is REALLY into writing anything and everything he can right now. He is also really into addition and subtraction and loves playing math games on IPAD.
New Year 2012 (5 years old)

My Favorite Parenting & Other Books

Strong Mothers, Strong Sons by Meg Meeker. (February 2015) Read when Carter was 8. So many topics it covers but amazing everyday reminders on importance of our relationship when they are young, from affection to how they change in the tween years, teaching them how to communicate their feelings, how to talk to them to get them to open up, bullying, video games, importance of relationship with father, so much. Glad I read now but need to re-read every 2-3 years, especially when he is 11 or 12.
Books To Read To Kids: It's Not the Stork - Plan to read to them when they start asking, "How are babies born?" Body part questions, body changes, how babies are made (sperm/egg - first intro that it's not the stork), 2 mommy /daddy questions, adoption, "okay" touches and "not okay" - haven't used as of Feb 2015 at ages 8 and almost 7
Books To Read To Kids: Good Pictures Bad Pictures - Porn Proofing Today's Young Kids - When to read depends on personality of each kid. Read Ch 1 only with CB when he was 7.5 and it brought about some good questions about why there is this danger. I could tell this was all brand new to him and focused on importance of him telling me any time anyone talks about or want sot show him "bad pics." My plan is to bring in back out in 9-12 months (March-July 2015) to re-visit to ensure we are starting to have very open lines of communication. As far as Addie, unless she shows other signs or starts asking ANY questions, I plan to introduce to her at 8 years old.
Books to Read To Kids: I Said No! - A Kid to Kid Guide to keeping private parts private: I think think this one is perfect for mature 6 yr olds and all 7 year olds. *Perfect book to read before they have any playdates or sleepovers.
Books To Read To Kids: Your Body Belongs To You - Read to CB at 7.5 and AB at 6yrs. It was pretty elementary for them both but good concept and to actually start talking about - "specifically if anyone ever tries to touch you and begs you not to tell" you say okay and come right to mom and dad. ***Keep for DB and introduce to her around 4.5-5 yrs old. (July 2017)
Simplicity Parenting- Sept 2012 Good reminders on what excess and clutter can do to children and families and how it can cause too many choices and create entitlement. Taught me to me more aware as they get older to "soul fever" and teach them to pull back.
5 Love Languages For Kids. Aug 2102. Initially, I believe Carter is quality time and physical touch and Addie is words of affirmation(ages 5.5 and 4)
Too Busy For Your Own Good - Confirms I am handling busy life well but gives great reminders about staying in balance and the importance of getting rid of stress by handling life well so that you lead an all around happy life.
Raising Girls - great reminders of what today young girls are facing (need to re-read when Addie 5 & 6 yrs again) Christian views on raising a confident young girl and setting her expectations how how men should treat her. Somewhat old fashion mentality but overall important reminders
Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child-great for Carter and reminding us how to approach sensitive children
Loving Your Child Is Not Enough (acknowledging feelings, emphasizing, etc... good little reminders)
Montessori Madness (amazing introduction to this incredible environment) Sensitive periods
Family First - McGraw - good at identifying parenting & child styles and how to bring out the best in one another
Dumbing Us Down - on public school education
Love and Logic for Early Years - April '10 - (when Addie was 23 months & Carter almost 3.5)
Potty Training (Back chapter of popular book) like Toddler Wise? Maybe (all about rewarding for staying dry) - Carter was 23 months
123 Magic - Carter was 20 months (worked perfectly for him)
Baby Whisper For Toddlers - When Carter was around 10 months
Raising Boys - 2007 (Need to re-read when Carter 6-7 yrs)
Baby Whisper - Before Carter Was Born (Thanks to Ali and random book she mailed me when she found out I was pregnant with Carter!) SIMPLY THE BEST BOOK IN THE WORLD!

Things I Have Learned as a Mom

Don't tell them not do something if it really isn't a big deal, it really only does cause them to do it 10X more. EX) 4/11 They were playing in the bath tub pretending to buy drinks and they were asking for "Diet Coke" out of the blue. I told them they don't drink Diet Coke, how about water, milk or lemonade? For the next 30 min, every other word was Diet Coke.
There are still occassional really rough evenings with a 3.5 year old and 2 year old
Weekends away as a couple are so very important and it is equally important for the bond to form between toddlers and grandparents while we are away - Early 2010
Parenting 2 little kids full time can defintley but strain on a strong marriage at times - Carter 3 and Addie 1.5
There are REALLY REALLY rough days and nights with 2 under 3 - late 2009
Follow that inner mommy intuition ALWAYS! - After 4 nights of Addie being extremely fussy while molars breaking through with NO temperature. Took her in at 8:30 PM and had ear infection at 15 months.
Potty trainning a boy is filled with lots of "ups and downs!" - Carter at 2.5 years
A Family Vacation is not really a "vacation" with a 1 and 2 year old but still very fun!
I couldn't have 2 children as close together if I didn't have such a hands on and involved husband... SERIOUSLY.
Consistent and lots of positive reinforcements works well between 12-24 months!
No matter how close together you have 2 children or the fact that you try to do everything exactly the same... your children are completely different people and have their own personalities!
4 oz of formula coming out seems like a LOT more than 4 oz going in (The first time Addison was sick with stomach virus)
You can get a 2 year old to happily do anything for a popsicle and sticker - (Potty training Carter at 24 months)
Don't give into a toddler when he doesn't want to eat any meat for a week (Carter at 15 months) They will give in if you keep giving them what you want them to have!
Allow them to "talk" or slightly "fuss" in the middle of the night, 90% of the time, they will put themselves back to sleep (When Carter was 3 months old; duplicated with Addie)

Why are we blogging?

We are so glad you stopped by. There are 3 purposes of us blogging.

The first and foremost reason is to keep our out-of-town family & friends updated on the activities of our family. Since we have had this blog, we're able to stay connected with the kids & their everyday happenings in all of our lives. Blake & I realize how fast time is going by and don't want distance in miles to keep our families separated.

The second reason is to keep our in-town family & friends updated. In this crazy and fast-paced world, it is easy to miss important and not so important, however, meaningful moments in all of our lives. After reading a friend's blog, I cannot tell you how many times I have picked up the phone and called someone that lives down the street and said... "Now tell me more... I didn't know that was going on!"

Finally, I see this new technology as a perfect way to document our family's actions on a weekly basis through the years. I will turn each year's "jounal" into a hard back book and look forward to surprising Carter and Addison on their wedding day with 25+ voulumes of everything they ever did, documented! I would love if I had that to look back on now that I am a parent!