Carson & Cali Birthday Weekend (With A Little Intermission)

We got there and said hello to the 2 most blue eyed kids in the world....

And about 14 hours after arriving, Addie got a low grade temp, said her stomach was hurting and was just NOT HERSELF... kinda out of it so within 8 minutes we were packed up and outta their house and checked into... 

 ...a hotel where Carter was allowed to jump on the bed for the very first time! He and dad played lots of Leapster and we watched 3 movies in a row!

 Addie and I took a long bath.... see, we were just in waiting mode.

 You ask "Why?" Well, that would be because 9 out of the 15 kids in Addie's class were slammed between Monday and Friday with one the worst stomach bugs I have ever seen. Several of her friends where throwing up for DAYS (not hours)! One of her friends even had to be hospitalized for dehydration. We thought we had made it through until she started acting a little too calm. So we played with babies and just waited....

 The crazy thing was that she KEPT eating (she definitely didn't ever loose her appetite.)

While we were waiting for the stomach bug to hit, we went swimming in the hotel's hot tub. She was feeling great but just wanted to make sure that everything was working perfectly and the main reason was we didn't want to pass anything along to Carson and Cali!

 We made the most of it.

After about 20 hours of nothing substantial happening, the temperature breaking and Addie acting much more like herself, we headed back to the party where 50 of Carson and Cali's friends & family were going to be arriving soon.

 We were celebrating our nephew Carson turning three!

 And Cali turning the BIG ONE!

 

One of my favorite's of the weekend...

 Cali got her very first baby doll! Look at the genuine smile on mom's face!

All the Brown side cousins - Carson (2) Cali (1) Carter (4) Addie (almost 3) Kaylee (5) Sean (7) Rose (almost 2)

 All the cousins helped Cali open some of her gifts.

 Another favorite... 'The Brown Twins' with their baby girls!



Keepin' It Real.

I was scanning back over the blog the other night and had a fun walk down memory lane. Wow... I do see that we are some busy people (just like everyone else I know) but I noticed something else... Based on our blog, it just seems like our lives are 100% easy and fun... and since one of the main reasons for this blog is long term documentation of our lives, I think it is only fair to be a little more balanced. Anyways... I hate it when people try to put up a front that everything is always perfect...

This (thank goodness) is no longer a extremely regular occurrence in our house but we probably average one or two every couple of weeks along this caliber. It is quite amusing how something so stressful in the moment, can be forgotten about rather quickly. My opinion is that one's short-term memory is why there are families like the Dugars.... what are they at now? 21 and counting?!

Welcome to 6:25 PM on Wednesday evening 3.23.2011 in the Brown home...

Official "Puma" Team Pictures.

I think I could start a side business and start actually charging for all of Carter's future team's pictures. But... na! Then I would have to actually worry about getting perfect shot. This way no one can complain because it's free..... ;)

 

This was NOT on my Bucket List...

67. Have someone ask me to be a "guest blogger" and write an entry on being a Mom.

But I just added it to the list and got to cross it off right away.

67. Have someone ask me to be a "guest blogger" and write an entry on being a Mom.
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My friend Brooke Meabon, an amazing, first time mom is doing this as a special project for Mother's Day. She is one of those stories where I knew everything about her from her blog before we ever even met in person. Her amazing candor and funny tidbits about being a new mom make me anxiously wait for any new post from her because I know chances are, it will bring a loud chuckle or a tear to the eye.

I was honored to be asked to participate here on her Mother's Day Project where she asked some fellow moms to write anything that was on their heart about being a mom.

http://peekinourworld.blogspot.com/2011/05/mothers-voice-megan.html
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What A Boxer Puppy Taught Me About Parenting

Looking back, it hit me when my first born was eleven months old and I was three months pregnant with number two and exhausted. As I laid on the floor in the living room, I remember jokingly saying "Carter, go to your room and bring me your Goodnight Moon book so we can read it before bed." My mouth about fell to the floor when I noticed him half-walking-half-crawling back into the room, with the book in tow.

I realized then and there that this kid was way smarter than I gave him credit for. From that point on, I made a conscious effort to remember he knows more and can do more than I realize and I can embark on the long journey to help achieve every parent's ultimate goal of molding their child into an independent, happy and successful adult… and begin this even before he is out of diapers.

I was reading a children’s development book my friend Diane gave me that talked of "sensitive periods." They describe them as a certain time period when a child's brain is urging him to focus like a laser on a particular skill, mastering a developmental milestone or immersing himself in an experience.

Something told me to re-read this and a light bulb went off in my head. I had dozens of flashbacks over the last three years suddenly pop into my head. I remembered when Carter, my young four year old, asked us for three days straight to practice addition problems with him…. completely out of the blue. He couldn't get enough of what seven plus five was. Or other times, like when he only wanted to read from his space and planet book, every night for two weeks straight. I remember begging him to choose different book.

I remember my two year old daughter, a few months ago, suddenly wanting to practice writing letters all the time and when she really wanted to do nothing but master her front flip in the living room.

Although it didn’t mean anything then, it makes perfect sense now. This “ah ha” moment taught me to allow my kids to tell me what they want to learn about at their super young age. My job in return is to expose them to as much as possible and be ready to expand from there. I can help give them the information they are so despartely asking for at the moment in time when they actually care to learn about it.

Perhaps, it's a trip to the crazy, smelly, nasty Snake Farm up I-35 the next time Carter is in a bug and reptile "period." Or for Addie, it may be as simple as dropping everything when she wants me to watch her write the letters "A" and “D” upside down instead of folding that load of laundry or checking work email in the evenings. The bottom line is that they are little sponges right now and I need to help provide the water for them to soak up as much as they can.

This moment in time with Carter and Addie had me reminiscing back to when I got Maverick, my now nine year old boxer, for $350 in 2002. This was my first big purchase after graduating college and starting my first real job. I had the pick of the litter from his eleven brothers and sisters. An overwhelming desire hit me once I had my first night with him. I wanted to be the best "owner" to Maverick and to ensure I was giving him the best start possible, I bought three dog training books and had him enrolled at "puppy school" at the ripe ol' age of twelve weeks… for those that know me well… surprising huh???

This was our 2002 Christmas card sent out to 30 of our closest friends and family.

One of the recommendations of the puppy book was "introduce your new puppy to as many new things as you can in their first year.” So yes… I was the twenty-two year old girl that went up to scary looking, old men who had big shaggy beards to have them pet my little puppy so just in case, by chance, my future un-met husband ever had a beard. “Mav” and I also spent an afternoon picnicking by a busy railroad crossing so that my then five month old puppy would be comfortable if and when he heard a loud train as an adult. As over the top as it was (and showing me now how I had entirely too much time on my hands), I truly have seen the beneficial effect these dedicated measures have had on his demeanor and more importantly, the reversely negative effects when I didn't apply this advice with regards to introducing him to swimming by the age of one.

I found my husband in 2003 and he ended up not having a beard after all. ;)

To this very day, even with our dozens of trips each year to the lake, beach and river, there is no getting around the fact that my very athletically and in-shape boxer sinks like a one-ton boulder instantly to the bottom of any body of water. When tested over the years, it has resulted 100% of the time in countless rescues by my sweet husband.

So with those fond memories, an idea popped into my heard. I wanted to spend this spring really focusing on this same idea with my children. I challenged my husband to a ninety day test to get us to remember to think like two people who have only been on Earth for an average of 1200 days.

At first, I’ll admit, it was way harder than I thought it would be since they are almost three and four years old. I had to actually think hard on some days to consciously find something completely novel to them. After a stressful day at work when my husband was traveling overnight, all I really wanted to do was go through our comfortably common routine of soccer practice, dinner, bath, books and bed.

Addie (almost 3), Maverick (almost 9) & Carter (4)

But I have seen it do both my husband and I good. For the past thirty days, multiple times a day, no matter if I am applying makeup in the mornings, cleaning out the garage or making dinner, I am constantly thinking of “what have they not done before that they would like to do?” I have to say it has helped me be more present in the moment and to see the world through their young and naive eyes…

And to think all this is because of this boxer puppy…

04.11.11: Taught them the sign language signal for "I LOVE YOU!" I told them they can do it to each other if they ever were across the room or playground from one another


04.12.11: Taught them what an eraser does and the difference between erasing pen and pencil


04.13.11: Taught the to hold a DVD so not to scratch it


04.14.11: Taught them to do a cartwheel


04.15.11: Taught them to wrap a present on their own


04.16.11: Taught them how to play the game of washers


04.17.11: Taught them how to clean a window with newspaper and Windex


04.18.11: Taught them how to take a shower by themselves


04.19.11: Taught them how to snap snaps on shirt


04.20.11: Taught them how to close a zip lock bag


04.21.11: Taught them how to declare a "thumb war"


04.22.11: Taught them how to crack an egg and scramble it


04.23.11: Taught them how to do a frog kick in the swimming pool


04.24.11: Taught them how to play rock-paper-scissors


04.25.11: Taught them how to crack a hard boiled egg and what the albumen is


04.26.11: Taught them how to do a push up


04.27.11: Taught them how to order dinner for themselves at Chick-Fil-Le


04.28.11: Taught them to pay for nail polish at the CVS with cash and what “change” was


04.29.11: Taught them how to open a hotel door with a card key


04.30.11: First time in a hot tub, swimming outside when it was too cold in a pool


05.1.11: Taught them how to pull the lever down at Orange Leaf to get the yogurt they wanted by themselves


05.2.11: Taught them how to use a tape measure to measure how tall each one another are

A Girl's Best Friend (Just Like Her Mommy)

2011 - Addie and her first dog Maverick

1982 - Megan with her first dog Beau.



Thank You For Your Hospitality Nash Family!

Although the end of the Spurs season occurred during our stay and the continuation to the next round for the team you adore so much, your son secretly told us he can't stand all the the royal blue and white in the house and feels much more confident in black and silver! ;) We love you guys!

Annual Easter Egg Hunt At The Lake.

The girls got dressed up in their Easter best and paraded out the front walk to the awaiting John Deere tractor and hay ride. The Easter Bunny conveniently comes every year while we are on the 20 minutes ride around the neighborhood.

Then the Easter Egg hunt was on!

After the hunt of over 200 eggs, it was time to find a comfortable place in the shade, to go through all the loot...

Carter seemed to find a lot of the "golden eggs" with cash this year.

Addie was fascinated with the balloons in the eggs and wanted to blow all of them up...

My favorite of the day...

What a relaxing and low key Easter weekend.

My Bunnies Keep Growing!

Easter 2011

Easter 2010

Easter 2009